You know what’s crazy? People who say to someone in grief, “Call me if you need anything.” Why so crazy? Because there’s almost ZERO chance we’re going to call. Why? Lots of possible reasons …. So, to recap the problem. People offer us help, and we actually need help. But the “help” is never received because we don’t call…
The day my son died, I fed him his early morning feeding at 5:30am and he went back to sleep. I was transitioning back to full-time at work so I had to wake him up at 7:30am and “top him off” before leaving to go to the sitter’s house. Since he had eaten at 5:30am…
Learning to live without your loved one is a long and difficult road to travel. Through books,support groups, blind luck, and the grace of God, I have learned many things that were of great help to me. I share three simple ideas here. I hope they help you on your journey. In Memory of ……
